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Organization is not the Destination!

  • Writer: Alana Stern
    Alana Stern
  • 5 days ago
  • 2 min read

I see you, running on empty every day.


Creative ideas trapped in your head because there's no bandwidth left to do anything with them.


It's Thursday and you still don't know what you're making for Shabbat. Guests are coming. The menu isn't planned, the shopping isn't done, figuring it all out feels heavier than the actual cooking will be.


And you’re thinking (again) that if you’d just be more organized, everything would click into place.


The reason why you’re not feeling as alive as your neurotypical neighbor is because organization is not YOUR destination - and believing that it is, consumes so much energy that there's nothing left for anything else.


When you learn how to get things done without being perfectly organized, you’ll show up as the mother, wife, friend, creative person with dreams and talents… with someone magnificent to contribute to the world.


These are 3 things I teach my clients to stop doing:



Stop fighting who you are

Stop following the wrong rulebook

Stop believing that just getting organized is going to make you more fulfilled (it DOES make your life less FULL, but that's not the end goal.)

When you drop the self-judgment, stop trying harder and get organized just enough, the real you gets to come out, play, come alive.



Imagine having brain space to work on that project you keep thinking about. The one that actually showcases your G-d given talents.


Imagine your creative energy going toward something meaningful like a fun reward-system for your kids, instead of getting swallowed by logistics.


Imagine helping them with Thursday night homework without the mental gymnastics of chicken recipes and grocery runs, because the menu is already planned and the shopping is done.


That’s the work I do with my clients.


If you're like one of the hundreds of women I’ve worked with who’ve been chasing "organized" and wondering why it never feels like enough, it’s time we talked.


On a free breakthrough call, we'll figure out what's actually draining your energy and what you're really working toward. Then we decide together if coaching is the right next step.


 
 
 

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